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Community Guidelines

Version 2026-11-14 · effective 14 November 2026

In short

  • Be yourself, be kind, and take no for an answer.
  • Never ask anyone for money.
  • What's shared with you in godhulisajh stays in godhulisajh.
  • If something feels wrong, block and report. A person reads every report.

1. Be yourself

Your own photos, your real name and your real age; you're 18 or over. One account each. No pretending to be someone else, and no accounts for someone else.

2. Be kind

In what you write and what you share. No insults, threats, bullying or harassment, in chat or anywhere else godhulisajh shows your words.

3. Take no for an answer

A pass, an unmatch, a declined chat request, a slow reply or no reply: all are fine. Give people space. Don't make a new account to reach someone who said no or blocked you.

4. Never ask for money

Not for gifts, travel, a visa, an emergency, crypto or an "investment". No selling, no promoting, no links to other services. If someone asks you for money, report them.

5. Respect everyone's background

No hate or put-downs about caste, ethnicity, religion, region, gender, sexuality, disability or body. Caste/gotra is never a reason to rank or dismiss someone, and godhulisajh never uses it to match.

6. Keep each other's secrets

Don't screenshot or share someone's photos, messages, contact details or profile outside godhulisajh without their permission. Don't out anyone, and don't tell family or friends about someone you met here.

7. Keep it clean

No nudity or sexual content in profiles or photos, and nothing sexual in chat that the other person hasn't clearly welcomed. Nothing violent, illegal or involving anyone under 18, ever.

8. Meeting up

Take your time. Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you'll be, get there and home on your own, and leave whenever you want. If you're in danger, call your local emergency number first.

9. Block and report

Block anyone, any time; they're not told. Then report them if they broke these guidelines: a person at godhulisajh reviews every report, aiming for within 24 hours, and never tells them who reported.

10. What happens when someone breaks these

Depending on what happened: a warning they must read before carrying on, a 7-day restriction (no new likes or conversations), or a ban. Serious harm, such as threats, scams or anything sexual involving minors, can lead straight to a ban, and an account that belongs to someone under 18 is closed. Think we got it wrong? Write to [email protected].